Many years
ago a good friend of mine shared with me a newspaper clipping relating the
story of two world class marathon runners from Spain. The two runners were
named Antonio Canovas and Fernado Diaz and the setting was the Madrid Marathon.
They were 2 of over 4000 runners that year. The winner of this marathon was
granted a free pass to participate in the New York Marathon later that year.
Canovas and Diaz
were friends and competitors. They were also two of the favorites to win the race.
As the race progressed these two runners gradually separated themselves from
the pack. They traded the lead back and forth as they set a fast pace. Then as
they approached the last few miles of the race, Canovas began to experience cramps.
He fought the pain and took the lead as they approached the finish line. But
several yards from the finish line his knees buckled and he fell down. The race
was Diaz’ to win. But Diaz did something that shocked the crowd. As he
approached Canovas, he stopped, swept up his friend and flung his arm around
Canovas and stumbled with him across the finish line. The faltering Canovas
crossed the line first.
When asked
about this after the race they replied,
“Once we
were in the lead, we decided not to fight each other and arrive together. It
did not matter who won. We are accustomed to helping each other. The pain and
suffering united us.”
In the end,
the judges awarded both men passes to the New York Marathon.
Life is not
about winning, it is about finishing the race, and doing it not alone, but with
those you love and care about.
President
Deider F. Uchtdorf has taught, “…our destiny is not determined by the number of
times we stumble but by the number of times we rise up, dust ourselves off, and
move forward.”
The truth
is, life we be filled with trials. We will make mistakes and fall down
occasionally. Sometimes when we think we are winning, and because we are so far
ahead, when we do have a setback or make a mistake, fall down if you will, it
is all the more painful because we did not think it was possible. But that is
actually when we are most vulnerable and our pride takes control.
The
scriptures teach us in 1 Corinthians 10:12-13:
There hath no
temptation taken
you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you
to be tempted
above that ye are able; but will with the temptation
also make a way to escape,
that ye may be able to bear
it.
While these
verses outline a wonderful promise from God and should give us solace in our
weaknesses, we still do stumble and fall. A simple fact of life is we will be
tried and tempted. And we will at times be tempted, and for whatever reason, miss
the escape opportunity or sadly simply not choose to escape, even though we
know we should. In other words, we fall down and sin.
Luckily,
like in the Madrid Marathon, if we humble ourselves, there will always be
someone to help us get up, keep moving forward and finish the race.
Why can’t we
just run the race of life to the finish line without interruption or
temptation? Why must we face choices
that can jeopardize our happiness? Why does the Lord allow us to be tempted? Understanding
the answers to these questions may help us avoid falling down so often.
In the book
of Abraham 3:24-25 we read about one of the primary purposes of our life on
this earth.
“And
there stood one
among them that was like unto God, and he said unto those who were with him: We
will go down, for there is space there, and we will take of these materials,
and we
will make an earth whereon these may dwell;
And
we will prove
them herewith, to see if they will do all things
whatsoever the Lord their God shall command them;”
The main
purpose of life is to choose God over the Adversary. We are tempted so we can show
by our actions our trust in the Lord and that we choose Him.
So in this
race we call life, there will be many opportunities for us to choose God over
the Adversary, to prove ourselves faithful to God. The Adversary will also set traps
designed to trip us up. And sometimes we will fall down. There will be times
when we fall down that we will feel like we can’t get up. We can’t move forward.
And that is exactly what the Adversary wants us to feel. That there is no hope.
I can’t get up. I can’t break this habit. I can’t change. I can’t forgive. Whatever
your challenge might be, you may want to say, “I can’t do it.” But the Lord is right
behind you, ready to sweep you up into His arms and help you move forward.
Sometimes He may work through a friend or a family member. Maybe it is your
bishop. It may be their arms that pick you up. Whoever it is, the message is,
you can do it! Get up! You are destined for more.
The thoughts
of despair and doubt that we often might feel are not of God. These are
emotions that the Adversary promotes to make us think we can’t get up. It is
normal to feel sorrow and remorse when we sin. And it is human to feel
disappointment, even in oneself, but the Gospel of Jesus Christ teaches us we
are destined for better.
Whatever the
challenge might be, the message of the gospel tells us we can get back up. It
is not okay to accept our weaknesses. We must acknowledge we have weaknesses,
but we must strive to change. We can do this by humbling ourselves sufficiently
so the Lord can help us overcome our weaknesses. That is how we get back in the
race.
In the Book
of Mormon, most are familiar with this wonderful passage, Ether 12:27:
And
if men come unto me I will show unto them their weakness. I give unto men
weakness that they may be humble;
and my grace is sufficient for all men that humble themselves before me; for if they humble themselves before me, and
have faith in me, then will I make weak things become strong unto them.
We must be
humble, have faith and trust the Lord.
Humility and
reliance on the Lord leads to a Godly sorrow that empowers us with faith and hope in Christ. That faith and hope leads to repentance
(action- changing our lives). With faith and hope in Christ and a humble heart,
we have access to the Grace of the Savior.
This grace
is an enabling power that allows men and women to lay hold on eternal life and
exaltation after they have expended their own best efforts.
Because of the
Fall of Adam and man’s weaknesses and shortcomings, divine grace is needed by
everyone. However, grace alone is not enough without total effort on the part
of the recipient. Hence the words, “It is by grace that we are saved, after all
we can do” (2 Ne. 25:23).
My friends,
the atonement of Christ gives us hope. We can get up. We can change. We can
finish the race!
I have found
in my life that there are a couple things that have helped me rise each time I have
stumbled or fell down.
1. One of
the Adversary’s methods to prevent us from progressing is to confuse us about
who we really are and what we really desire. We fall down when we forget who we
are and why we are here. It is also hard to get up when we lose sight of our
eternal nature. Remember you are child of God and you possess great worth and
potential. You are loved by many and always loved by your Father in Heaven.
2. I try to
focus on developing what I consider to be the 4 most important attributes of
Christ. Humility, Faith, Hope and Charity. When we remember who we are and
humble ourselves (that means acknowledging God knows better than we do) and
exercise faith and hope in Christ we can better feel and practice charity. This
will not only give us the strength to get up, but it will cultivate the desire
to become the hands that can help others up that have fallen too. If you want
to get up, help up someone else. If you want to feel better, help someone else
feel better. Refocus your life on others and forget yourself. That is the
essence of Charity. Giving of yourself to others.
I love these
verses from Moroni in the Book of Mormon that teach about these principles.
Moroni
10:20-23
Wherefore,
there must be faith; and if there must be faith there must also be hope; and if
there must be hope there must also be
charity.
And except ye have charity ye can in nowise be saved in the
kingdom of God; neither can ye be saved in the kingdom of God if ye
have not faith; neither can ye if ye have no hope.
And if ye have no hope ye must needs be in despair; and despair cometh because of
iniquity.
And Christ
truly said unto our fathers: If ye have faith ye can do all things which
are expedient unto me.
Moroni 7:48
Wherefore,
my beloved brethren, pray unto the Father with all the energy of
heart, that ye may be filled with this love, which he hath bestowed
upon all who are true followers
of his Son, Jesus Christ; that ye may become the sons of God; that when he
shall appear we shall be
like him, for we shall see him as he is; that we may have this hope; that we
may be purified
even as he is pure. Amen.
The simple
truth is, no one can finish the race without Christ. He is the gatekeeper. He
is the Savior of all of us. He will personally pick each of us up and carry us
across the finish line, one by one. It is by His Grace we are saved, after all
we can do. So do all you can and then cry unto God in the name of Christ that He
will help you get up. I promise He will.
January 26, 2014
W.A. McIntyre